Pakistani matrimonial · Rishta with respect
A rishta search that keeps your family's privacy intact.
Photographs and phone numbers stay hidden by default. Another member can ask to see them; you decide, one person at a time. There is no chat on this site and there never will be — once you both agree, the conversation moves to WhatsApp where it belongs, between the families.
- Photos locked by default
- No chat, ever
- Email-verified members
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Free to browse. No photographs are shown to anyone until a member says yes.
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Pakistani families searching today
Photographs stay locked until the member accepts your request.
Nothing is shared until you say yes.
Most Pakistani matrimonial sites hand over photographs and phone numbers the moment somebody pays. Families know this, which is why so many will not put a daughter's picture online at all. We built the opposite.
- A complete biodata, openlyAge, city, caste and biradari, sect, education, profession, family background and partner preferences — everything a family weighs before a rishta goes further.
- Photographs and number sealedYour face and your contact number are the two things this site will not publish. They stay sealed until you release them yourself, to one person at a time.
- You answer, or you don'tA request shows you exactly who is asking and their whole profile. Accept and the two families speak on WhatsApp. Decline and it closes quietly — no notice is sent, no reason is asked.
How it works
Four steps, and no chat at any point.
The whole rishta process is built so that families stay in control, from the first click to the first meeting.
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Create your profile
Biradari, sect, education, family background, what you are looking for. Photographs are optional, and plenty of families here share none.
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Confirm and be reviewed
We email a confirmation link; clicking it makes your profile live. A rishta consultant reads it too. Both are free, and neither holds you back.
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Search and request
Filter by city, country, caste, sect, education, age and marital status. When a profile fits, request photographs or a number.
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Accept, then talk
If they accept, the photographs unlock and the number is released. From there you continue on WhatsApp, family to family.
No messaging at any stage
Create your profile in about four minutes
You can start here and finish the rest later from your dashboard. Nothing goes live until you have confirmed your email address, and no photograph is ever public.
- Your photographs remain locked until you personally accept a request.
- Your phone number is never displayed and never sold to third parties.
- You may nominate a guardian — father, brother or mother — as the contact.
- You can hide, pause or permanently delete your profile at any time.
Quick registration
Step one of four. The full form opens after this.
Updated through the day
Complete profiles, recently active
Scored on how complete the profile is, how recently the member was active, and whether they have added photographs. It changes through the day.
How the list is kept
Every profile is read by a rishta consultant
A matrimonial list is only as good as the worst profile on it. So one of our rishta consultants reads and assesses every profile on ByahMe, and reads it again whenever a member changes something substantial. We are checking that the biodata holds together, that the wording is the family’s own, that the same person does not already hold a second account, and that nothing on it is commercial, abusive or indecent. What does not stand up is corrected with the member or taken down.
Nothing is held in a queue while that happens and no profile is stopped or paused for it. The review runs quietly alongside the service, which is how it should be.
Said plainly
A careful read is not identity verification. It is no guarantee that a member’s identity, background, family or circumstances are as described. We confirm the email address, we do not collect CNICs, and we have seen no document belonging to any member. Our job is to raise the standard of what reaches you and to be completely open about every field on the profile. Checking a claim is still yours to do, and our quality page and safety guidance show you how.
Search the way families actually search
Caste, sect, profession, immigration status, second marriage. The filters match the questions that get asked in real rishta conversations.
Doctor Rishta
Medicine is the most requested profession on both sides of the Pakistani marriage market, and the pool is genuinely large.
Engineer Rishta
Engineering families tend to prioritise qualification, employer and posting over biradari.
Overseas Rishta
Matches where one or both sides are settled outside Pakistan, with residency and relocation stated up front.
Second Marriage Rishta
For divorced and widowed members seeking a serious second marriage.
Divorced Rishta
A respectful search for members who have been through divorce or khula.
Widow & Widower Rishta
For members who have lost a spouse and are ready to marry again.
Hafiz-e-Quran Rishta
For families where deen is the leading criterion.
Syed Rishta
For families who search strictly within Sayyid descent.
Rajput Rishta
Rajput biradari matching, in Pakistan and abroad.
One membership. One price.
Prices are in Pakistani rupees. Overseas members pay by bank transfer, JazzCash or Easypaisa. Card payment is built but not switched on yet.
Ninety days of full access and ten connection tokens. A token is spent only when someone accepts your request for their number.
- Full profile listing, live as soon as your email is confirmed
- Unlimited browsing, filters and compatibility matches
- Photo requests are free and never use a token
- Accepting a request costs you nothing
- A declined request returns your token in full
- A fresh 10 tokens and 90 days each time you buy
- Email verification on every account
- Email support, replies within one working day
Free for everyone during the launch period.
All fees are non-refundable once membership is activated. Read the refund policy before paying.
Families who found their match here
We do not invent testimonials, and we do not use photographs of strangers as real couples.
Every story published on this site comes from a couple who were matched here and who asked us to share it. If you were matched through ByahMe, we would be glad to publish yours.
- Written permissionNothing is published until the couple has agreed to it in writing.
- Names as they wishShortened to a first name or an initial wherever a family asks.
- No stock photographsWe never present a picture of strangers as a real couple.
Rishta profiles from Pakistan to the world
Every point is a page of its own — the Pakistani matrimonial profiles registered there, and a note on the local community.
Pakistan
Karachi Lahore Islamabad Rawalpindi Faisalabad Multan Peshawar Quetta Gujranwala Sialkot Hyderabad Bahawalpur Sargodha Sukkur Larkana Sheikhupura Jhang Gujrat Mardan Kasur Rahim Yar Khan Sahiwal Okara Wah Cantt Dera Ghazi Khan Mingora (Swat) All citiesOverseas Pakistanis
United Kingdom United States Canada United Arab Emirates Saudi Arabia Australia Qatar Kuwait Oman Bahrain Germany France Spain Portugal Italy Norway Denmark Sweden Netherlands Belgium Greece Malaysia Türkiye South Africa New Zealand Ireland Singapore Hong Kong ThailandNew this week
The newest rishta profiles on ByahMe
The most recent Pakistani matrimonial profiles to join, at home and overseas. Each one shows biradari, sect, family background, education and what the family is looking for.
The ByahMe journal
Guides for families doing this themselves
Verifying a rishta proposal: a practical checklist
The specific checks that catch misrepresentation, in the order worth doing them — and most of them cost nothing. Written for families doing this themselves, not for agents.
Read the checklistWhat families get wrong about overseas rishta and visas
Immigration status is the most misrepresented fact in overseas matchmaking. How to check it.
The nikah nama, clause by clause: what column 18 actually means
Most families sign without reading. A plain-language walk through clauses 17, 18 and 19.
How to write a rishta profile that actually gets responses
Most profiles fail for the same three reasons. None of them are about looks.
Biradari in rishta: how much should it really decide?
What caste preference genuinely predicts, and how families are quietly changing their position.
How ByahMe is built
Built on trust, not on traffic.
Most Pakistani matrimonial sites make money for as long as you stay on them. We make money once, when you join. That single difference decides almost everything else about how this rishta service behaves.
- We want you to leaveA successful rishta means you close your profile and never come back. We designed for that outcome rather than against it. There is no feed to scroll, no streak to keep up, and nothing engineered to pull you back in.
- One price, publishedThe same fee for a family in Sargodha and a family in Toronto. No premium tier that quietly unlocks what should have been included, no featured-profile auction, and nobody who calls to upgrade you.
- Your token comes backIf someone declines your request, the connection token returns to you in full. We take payment for introductions that actually happened. Charging for rejection would be an easy way to make money and a fast way to deserve none.
- Nobody reaches your photosMember photographs sit outside the website directory entirely. Moderators can review them for safety and that review is logged. Nothing else can reach them by any web address.
- Watermarked on releaseWhen you accept a photo request, the images that person sees carry their own member ID across them. A leaked screenshot traces straight back to whoever leaked it, and they know that before they ask.
- A person answersEvery email reaches a human being, usually the same working day. No ticket queue that closes itself after three days, and no chatbot standing between a worried parent and an answer.
What we actually do, and what each one costs us
Anyone can put the word “trusted” on a matrimonial homepage. These are the practices behind ours, printed beside the price we pay for keeping them.
We turn away bad photographs
What it costs usSign-ups we would otherwise have hadEvery uploaded picture is checked for a human face before it is stored. Scenery, buildings, cars, pets and screenshots are refused automatically, which keeps the rishta listings honest.
We remove abandoned profiles
What it costs usThe size of our listingsA profile nobody has opened for six months is deleted, after warning. Nothing is worse than a family building hope around an account that was abandoned two years ago.
We state the refund position up front
What it costs usEvery impulse purchase we might have keptMembership is non-refundable once active, and we say so on the pricing page, at checkout and in the terms — not buried in clause fourteen. You should know before you pay, not after.
We do not pretend to verify what we cannot
What it costs usA trust badge that would sell very wellOne of our rishta consultants reads and assesses every profile, and we confirm every member's email address with a code. Those two are the whole of it — a mobile number is collected so it can be released when you accept a request, but it is never verified, and we do not collect CNICs at all. A careful read catches a profile that contradicts itself; it is no guarantee of anybody's identity or background. We cannot verify that someone is kind, or that a family is telling the truth about its circumstances, and we will not imply otherwise.
Istikhara and family consultation come first. This is a search tool, not a decision-maker. We will never send you a “your perfect match” notification, because that is not a claim any website is in a position to make. Compatibility scores here save you time. Nothing more.
Questions families ask first
Does ByahMe have chat or messaging?
No. ByahMe has no chat, no inbox and no direct messaging, and it never will. You send a request for photographs or for a WhatsApp number, and the other family accepts or declines. Once they accept, the conversation moves to WhatsApp, between the families.
Is ByahMe a dating app?
No. ByahMe is a Pakistani matrimonial service, not a dating app. There is no swiping, no feed, no chat and no public photographs. Profiles are written for families, and the first contact is a request that has to be accepted before anything is shared.
Can parents create a rishta profile for their son or daughter?
Yes. Most ByahMe profiles are created by a parent, brother or sister, and every profile states who it is for. You can also nominate a guardian's number so that the first contact from another family reaches the guardian rather than the candidate.
Who can see my photos on ByahMe?
Nobody, until you personally accept a request. Photographs are hidden on your profile by default. When a member asks to see them, you see who is asking and their full profile before you decide, and you can withdraw access later from your dashboard. Released photographs carry that member's ID as a watermark.
Will my phone number be shown to anyone?
No. Your number is never displayed on your profile and never sold. It is released only to a member whose request you have personally accepted. You may also nominate a guardian's number — your father's or brother's — so the first contact goes through them instead.
Is ByahMe free?
Yes, until 14 November 2026. Full membership costs nothing during the launch period: you create a profile, browse and send requests exactly as a paying member would, and no card details are needed to start.
How much does ByahMe cost after the launch period?
Rs 3,000 for 90 days of full membership, and the same price everywhere in the world. A family in Sargodha and a family in Toronto pay exactly the same. There is no premium tier, no auto-renewal and no saved card.
Are ByahMe membership fees refundable?
No. All fees are non-refundable once the membership is activated, because access to the profile database begins immediately. This is stated on the pricing page, at checkout and in the terms. Please read the refund policy before you pay.
How do overseas Pakistanis pay for a ByahMe membership?
By Visa or Mastercard on our payment provider's secure page. Your own bank converts the Rs 3,000 at its own rate, so an overseas member pays the same as a member in Pakistan. Inside Pakistan you can also use JazzCash, Easypaisa or a bank account.
Start your search today
Free until 14 November 2026. No card needed, no chat, no surprises.
Every profile type on ByahMe
Biradari, profession, marital status and where a family is settled — each has its own page, and each is filtered to the people it names.
Begin the search with your family beside you
Free to publish a profile during launch. Photographs and contact numbers stay yours until you decide otherwise.