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A rishta search that keeps your family's privacy intact.

Photographs and phone numbers are hidden by default. Another member can ask to see them; you decide. There is no chat on this site, and there never will be — once you both agree, the conversation moves to WhatsApp where it belongs, between the families.

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THE DIFFERENCE

Nothing is shared until you say yes.

Most matrimonial sites hand over photographs and phone numbers the moment somebody pays. Families know this, which is why so many will not put a daughter's picture online at all.

We built the opposite. Your profile carries everything a family needs to judge a match — age, city, caste, sect, education, profession, family background, partner preferences. What it does not carry is your face or your number. Those stay sealed.

When somebody wants to see more, they send a request. You see exactly who is asking, you read their whole profile, and you accept or decline. Declining is silent and requires no explanation.

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Four steps, and no chat at any point

The whole process is built so that families stay in control from the first click to the first meeting.

  1. Create your profile

    Fill in the details that matter — biradari, sect, education, family background, what you are looking for. Photographs are optional, and plenty of families here share none.

  2. Get verified

    We email you a confirmation code. Clicking it is what makes your profile live. That is the only check we make, and it is free.

  3. Search and request

    Filter by city, country, caste, sect, education, age and marital status. When a profile fits, request photos or a WhatsApp number.

  4. Accept, then talk

    If they accept, the photos unlock and the number is released. From there you continue on WhatsApp, family to family.

FREE DURING LAUNCH

Create your profile in about four minutes

You can start here and finish the rest later from your dashboard. Nothing goes live until you have confirmed your email address, and no photograph is ever public.

The first two months of service are free for everybody who joins during launch. No card details are required to create a profile.
  • Your photographs remain locked until you personally accept a request.
  • Your phone number is never displayed and never sold to third parties.
  • You may nominate a guardian — father, brother or mother — as the contact.
  • You can hide, pause or permanently delete your profile at any time.
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Launch offer

Membership is free

Join before 14 November 2026 and pay nothing. The price below applies after the launch period ends.

One membership. One price.

Prices are in Pakistani rupees. Overseas members pay by card in their own currency at the prevailing rate.

All fees are non-refundable once membership is activated. Read the refund policy before paying.

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SUCCESS STORIES

Families who found their match here

Every story on this site is published with the couple's written permission, and names are shortened where they asked for that. We do not invent testimonials and we do not use stock photographs of strangers as real couples.

If you were matched through us, we would be glad to publish your story. It helps other families trust the process.

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The most recent profiles to join. Register free to open any of them and see biradari, sect, family background and preferences.

Built on trust, not on traffic

Most matrimonial sites make money when you stay on them. We make money once, when you join. That single difference decides almost everything else about how this service behaves.

We want you to leave

A successful match means you close your profile and never come back. We designed for that outcome rather than against it. There is no feed to scroll, no streak to keep up, and nothing engineered to pull you back in.

One price, published

The same fee for a family in Sargodha and a family in Toronto. No premium tier that quietly unlocks what should have been included, no featured-profile auction, and nobody who calls to upgrade you.

Your token comes back

If someone declines your request, the connection token returns to you in full. We take payment for introductions that actually happened. Charging for rejection would be an easy way to make money and a fast way to deserve none.

Nobody reaches your photos

Member photographs sit outside the website directory entirely. Moderators can review them for safety and that review is logged. Nothing else can reach them by any web address.

Watermarked on release

When you accept a photo request, the images that person sees carry their own member ID across them. A leaked screenshot traces straight back to whoever leaked it, and they know that before they ask.

A person answers

Every email reaches a human being, usually the same working day. No ticket queue that closes itself after three days, and no chatbot standing between a worried parent and an answer.

Sincerity, in practice

Anyone can put the word "trusted" on a homepage. These are the things we actually do, each of which costs us something.

We turn away bad photographs

Every uploaded picture is checked for a human face before it is stored. Scenery, buildings, cars, pets and screenshots are refused automatically. It adds friction at signup and it keeps the listings honest.

We remove abandoned profiles

A profile nobody has opened for six months is deleted, after warning. Nothing is worse than a family building hope around an account that was abandoned two years ago. It shrinks our numbers, and it is the right thing to do.

We state the refund position up front

Membership is non-refundable once active, and we say so on the pricing page, at checkout and in the terms — not buried in clause fourteen. You should know before you pay, not after.

We do not pretend to verify what we cannot

We verify email and phone, and CNIC on request. We cannot verify that someone is kind, or that a family is telling the truth about its circumstances. We will not imply otherwise with a badge that means nothing.

Istikhara and family consultation come first. This is a search tool, not a decision-maker. We will never send you a "your perfect match" notification, because that is not a claim any website is in a position to make. Compatibility scores here save you time. Nothing more.

Questions families ask first

Is there any messaging or chat on this site?

No. There is no chat, no inbox and no direct messaging. You can send a request for photos or for a WhatsApp number, and the other side either accepts or declines. If they accept, you continue on WhatsApp, between the families. That is the whole design.

Who can see my photographs?

Nobody, until you personally accept a request. Photos are hidden on your profile by default. When someone requests them, you see who is asking and their full profile before you decide. You can withdraw access later from your dashboard.

Is my phone number safe?

Your number is never displayed and never sold. It is released only to a member whose request you have accepted. You may also nominate a guardian's number — your father's or brother's — so the first contact goes through them instead.

What does the free launch period mean?

For the first two months after launch, full membership costs nothing. You create a profile, browse, and send requests exactly as a paying member would. No card details are needed to start.

Are the payments refundable?

No. All package fees are non-refundable once the membership is activated, because access to the profile database begins immediately. Please read the refund policy before paying.

Do you accept payment from overseas?

Yes. Overseas members pay by Visa or Mastercard on our payment provider's secure page, in their own currency at the prevailing rate. Inside Pakistan you can also use JazzCash, Easypaisa or a bank account.

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Free for the first two months. No card needed, no chat, no surprises.

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Free to publish a profile during launch. Photographs and contact numbers stay yours until you decide otherwise.

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