How it works
Seven steps from registration to the first family meeting — and the request system that sits at the centre of it.
Create your profile
Register with your name, date of birth, city, mobile and email. The full form covers religious details, caste, education, profession, family background and what you are looking for. It takes about ten minutes to complete properly.
Upload your photograph
One photograph, and your face has to be clearly visible in it. It is stored encrypted and never appears publicly. On your own profile card it shows as a locked panel, which is what every other member sees.
Confirm your email, and be read
Every member confirms their email address with a code we send, and one of our rishta consultants reads and assesses every profile. Those are the two checks, and nothing else is checked: no documents, no CNIC, no background. We would rather tell you that plainly than sell you a badge implying we have investigated anybody.
Activate your membership
During the launch period this is free. Afterwards it is Rs 3,000 for 90 days and 10 connection tokens, paid by card, JazzCash, Easypaisa or bank account on our payment provider's secure page. The membership activates the moment the payment succeeds, with no waiting and no admin approval. Buy again at any time for a fresh 10 tokens and a fresh 90 days.
Search and shortlist
Filter by gender, age, city, country, caste, sect, education, profession, marital status and residency. Shortlist the profiles worth a second look.
Send a request
Two request types only: Request photos and Request WhatsApp number. You can attach a short note of up to 200 characters — one time, not a conversation. The other member sees your full profile before deciding.
They accept, and you continue on WhatsApp
On accept, photos unlock for you alone and the number is released. Everything after that happens between the two families, off this platform. On decline, nothing is shared and you are simply told it was not accepted.
What a request actually does
A request is a one-time ask, not an opening message. It cannot be used to send repeated notes, and it cannot be used to contact somebody who has already declined you.
- Pending requests expire automatically after seven days.
- A declined profile cannot be re-requested for thirty days.
- Daily request limits apply by package, to stop bulk sending.
- Unlocked photographs are watermarked with the viewer's member ID.
- You can revoke previously granted access at any time.
- Every accept, decline and view is logged.
Every profile is read by a person first
Before you ever see it, and again whenever it changes.
A rishta consultant reads it
Not a script and not a keyword filter. Somebody on our team reads the whole profile and assesses whether it holds together: the ages and dates, the education against the work, the family details, the preferences, and the way it is written.
What gets corrected or removed
Biodata that contradicts itself, wording copied from another listing, duplicate accounts for the same person, agency and commercial postings, anything abusive or indecent, and photographs that plainly are not of the member.
What it is not
It is not identity verification and it is no guarantee that a member’s identity, background, family or circumstances are as described. Nobody here has seen a document belonging to any member. Ask for documents, speak to references, and insist on a video call before any meeting.
Nothing waits in a queue and no profile is held back while this happens. Your profile goes live when you confirm your email address; the review runs alongside it, and runs again each time you change something substantial.
What is visible, and what is not
| Detail | Before acceptance | After acceptance |
|---|---|---|
| Age, height, city, country | Visible | Visible |
| Caste, sect, mother tongue | Visible | Visible |
| Education, profession, employer type | Visible | Visible |
| Family background, siblings, partner preferences | Visible | Visible |
| Marital status and children | Visible | Visible |
| Photographs | Hidden | Unlocked for that member only |
| WhatsApp / phone number | Hidden | Released to that member only |
| Full name | First name and initial only | Full name |
| Exact address, email | Never shown | Never shown |
The guardian option
Many families prefer that the first contact does not go to the candidate directly. When you build your profile you can nominate a guardian — your father, brother, mother or uncle — and it is their number that gets released on acceptance, not yours.
The profile shows "Guardian contact: Father" so the other side knows what to expect. This is one of the most used settings on the site, and we would encourage it for any family that has hesitated about going online at all.
Begin the search with your family beside you
Free to publish a profile during launch. Photographs and contact numbers stay yours until you decide otherwise.