Full membership is free until 14 November 2026. No payment card needed. inquiry@byahme.com

One package. One price.

We looked at the tiered pricing every other rishta site uses and decided against it. Splitting the same service into three grades only teaches people that the cheap tier is the crippled one. There is one membership here, and it includes everything.

Free during the launch period

Everyone who joins before 14 November 2026 gets the full membership at no cost. Nothing to enter, no card details asked for. The price below applies afterwards.

Non-refundable. Access to the profile database begins the moment your membership activates, so the fee is final once paid. Please read the refund policy and the terms before you pay.

How a connection token works

This is the only part of our pricing that needs explaining, so we would rather over-explain it than have anyone feel caught out.

1 · You ask

You request someone's WhatsApp number. One token is held. Nothing has been spent yet, and nothing has been shared.

2 · They decide

They see your full profile and choose. Accepting costs them nothing at all — they never pay for being approached.

3a · They accept

The token is spent and the connection opens both ways: you see their number, they see yours. That is the whole point of a connection.

3b · They decline

Your token comes straight back. Same if they never answer — it returns automatically after seven days.

Photos are free

Photo requests never touch your tokens. Ask as many people as you like. Photos are one-way, so they see yours only if they ask you too.

Run out of tokens?

You keep browsing, keep requesting photos and keep accepting anyone who asks about you. Only new number requests pause until you top up — and topping up gives you a fresh 90 days from that day, not the remainder of the old term.

Renewing, and what happens to leftover tokens

Two rules, and they both work in your favour. We would rather set them out here than have anyone discover them at the wrong moment.

The clock always resets

Buying again gives you a full 90 days from the day you pay. It is never added on to what was left. Use every token in three weeks, top up, and you get a clean 90 days — not the sixty-nine days that remained.

Tokens carry, days do not

Unused connection tokens are added on top of the 10 you have just bought. Days are the opposite: whatever was left of the old term is gone the moment the new one starts. Tokens are what you paid for; days are only the window to spend them in.

A 15-day grace period

When a membership ends, we hold your leftover tokens for a further fifteen days. Renew inside that window and they are still yours. Let it pass and they are cleared. We email you before that happens, and again with five days left.

An example. Your membership ends with 12 tokens unused. You renew nine days later, inside the grace window. You start again with a full 90 days and 10 + 12 = 22 tokens. Had you left it three weeks, the 12 would have gone and you would start with 10.

What happens after 90 days

This is the part most sites hide. Here it is plainly, because it is the whole shape of how we charge.

  1. Day 1 — you activate

    The payment is recorded, your profile goes live immediately, and the 90 days start counting. Nobody has to approve anything, and the exact end date is on your dashboard from that moment.

  2. Days 2 to 89 — nothing from us

    We do not send countdown emails, upgrade offers or “your membership is ending” reminders. The date is on your dashboard whenever you want it. The only money email you get from us is the one confirming your membership is live.

  3. Day 90 — the membership ends

    You can no longer open another member’s profile, send a request, or accept one that comes in. Nothing is charged, because we never took a card to charge. Log in any time and everything is still there, waiting.

  4. Day 105 — the token grace period closes

    Unused tokens are held for fifteen days after the membership ends. Renew before then and they are added on top of your new ones. We email you when five days are left, and again if they are cleared, so it is never a surprise.

  5. Whenever you are ready — reactivate

    Log in with the same email, pay again, and your profile comes straight back with everything still in it, including anyone you had shortlisted. Or start a fresh profile from the same account if your situation has changed.

Contacts you already unlocked stay with you. If someone accepted your WhatsApp request while you were active, you already have their number — it is in WhatsApp, not locked inside our site. An expired membership does not take that away.

What the Rs 3,000 covers

The whole database

Every profile in every city and every country, with no tier holding anything back. Filter by caste, sect, education, profession, city, country, marital status and residency, and see a compatibility score against your own profile.

10 connection tokens

One token opens one connection. It is held when you ask, spent only if they accept, and returned in full if they decline or never reply. So 10 tokens means 10 real connections, not 10 attempts.

Free photo requests

Asking to see someone's photos never costs a token, however many times you ask. Only numbers are metered, because only a number is a connection.

Your privacy, enforced

Photos and your number stay locked to everyone until you personally accept. Every account is confirmed by email and every profile is read by a rishta consultant, and those are the only two checks we make.

Guardian contact

Share a father's or brother's number instead of your own. No extra cost, and no lesser service for choosing it.

Real support

Email support answered by a person, within one working day, Monday to Saturday. Not a ticket queue that closes itself after three days.

How to pay

Every payment goes through our payment provider’s secure page. You choose the method there, and your membership activates the moment the payment succeeds.

Visa & Mastercard

Debit and credit cards, from Pakistan or abroad. Overseas cards are charged in PKR at the prevailing rate.

JazzCash

Pay from your JazzCash wallet on the secure payment page. Approve it in the app and you are done.

Easypaisa

Pay from your Easypaisa wallet on the secure payment page. Approve it in the app and you are done.

Bank account

Pay directly from a Pakistani bank account through the payment page, where your bank supports it.

We never ask you to send money to a phone number or account. Every payment is made on the secure payment page. If anyone claiming to be from ByahMe asks you to transfer money to a personal number or account, it is not us — report it to complaints@byahme.com.

What you are not paying for

Most of what makes matrimonial sites expensive is not the service. It is the upsell sitting on top of it. None of that exists here, and none of it is coming.

No tiers

There is no silver, gold or platinum. Nobody sees more profiles than you do, and nobody’s request arrives ahead of yours because they paid more. A tiered service only teaches people that the cheap tier is the broken one.

No paid visibility

You cannot pay to be featured, boosted, pinned to the top of a city page or shown first in anyone’s results. The order profiles appear in is shuffled on every load, so attention is spread evenly rather than sold. There is no code in this site that could rank one member above another for money.

No commission on your marriage

A traditional arrangement often ends with a payment once a rishta is settled. Here the membership is the whole transaction. If you meet your husband or wife through this site we will be delighted, and we will not send you a bill for it.

No profile-writing or photo packages

Nothing on the site is sold to you after you join except more connection tokens, and those are the same price for everybody. Your profile is written by you.

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Why the fee is not refundable

The moment a membership activates you can read every profile on the site. That cannot be handed back, which is why the fee is final once paid. It is stated here, on the refund policy and on the checkout page, so that nobody can say they were not told.

What a token is worth

Ten tokens, and one is spent only when a member actually accepts your request for their number. A decline or an unanswered request costs you nothing. So the Rs 3,000 buys ten real connections, not ten attempts at one.

Billing questions

Does my membership renew automatically?

No, and it cannot. We do not store your card and we do not set up a standing instruction. When the 90 days are up, the profile closes itself and you decide whether to come back.

What happens to my profile when it expires?

You can no longer open another member’s profile, send a request, or accept one that comes in. Your data is kept exactly as it was, so reactivating brings everything back. If you would rather start clean, you can create a new profile from the same account instead.

Can I reactivate before the 90 days run out?

You can, and the only thing it costs you is days. The clock restarts rather than extending: paying again gives a full 90 days counted from the day you pay, and whatever days were left on the old term are not added on. Your tokens are safe, though — every purchase adds its 10 connections to whatever you are already holding, automatically. So buying early gains you no time and loses you no connections.

Is the price different for overseas members?

No. Rs 3,000 worldwide. A member in Bradford or Toronto pays exactly what a member in Lahore pays. Card payments are converted by your own bank at their rate.

How quickly does my membership activate?

Immediately. You pay on the payment provider’s own secure page, the provider confirms it to us, and the membership switches on at that moment — 90 days and 10 tokens — with a confirmation email. Nothing is typed, nothing is uploaded and nobody is checking it by hand, so there is nothing to wait for. If a payment does not go through, no membership is issued and nothing reaches us; whatever your bank or wallet is holding clears on their timetable rather than ours.

What if I find a match on day three?

Then the service worked, and we are glad. There is no refund for the unused days — that is stated plainly in the refund policy. You can hide your profile from your dashboard while keeping the account open.

Do you issue invoices?

No, and we do not email a receipt either. The activation of your membership is the confirmation: the moment the provider confirms your payment the membership goes live and you get an email saying so, with the term and the tokens on it. Every payment you have made is then listed under My Package in your dashboard, with its date, amount and reference, for as long as you want it.

Begin the search with your family beside you

Free to publish a profile during launch. Photographs and contact numbers stay yours until you decide otherwise.

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