Browse profiles
Full biodata on every profile — education, profession, family, biradari and sect. Photographs and contact numbers stay locked until that member accepts your request.
Who is on ByahMe
Loaded live. Register free and every field opens up, with a compatibility score against your own profile.
What you can filter on
Location
Country, city and area. Search locally, search back into Pakistan, or open it worldwide.
Biradari & sect
Caste and sect are open fields, so you filter before you approach rather than after an awkward conversation.
Education & profession
Twenty-nine education levels and 319 professions across twenty groups, from surgeon to welder to farmer to homemaker.
Marital status
Including second marriage, divorced, khula, widowed and separated, listed on equal terms with everyone else.
Age and height
Set a range and stop scrolling past profiles that were never going to fit.
Compatibility score
Every profile is scored against yours on nine signals — sect, biradari, country, city, mother tongue, education level, age gap, marital status and family type — and it tells you which ones matched.
What is visible on a profile
Age, height, marital status, children, sect, biradari, mother tongue, country, city, area, residency, education, field, profession, income bracket, family type, family class, parents’ occupations, siblings, and their own words about what they are looking for.
What is locked
Photographs, the WhatsApp number, full name, email and exact address. The first two unlock only when that member personally accepts your request. The rest never unlock at all.
Start somewhere narrower
The full search opens once you register. If you already know roughly what you are looking for, these pages are the same search with one filter already set.
By city
Karachi · Lahore · Islamabad · Rawalpindi · Faisalabad · Multan · Peshawar · Quetta · Gujranwala · Sialkot · all Pakistani cities
By country
United Kingdom · United States · Canada · United Arab Emirates · Saudi Arabia · Australia · Norway · Italy · all 30 countries
By biradari, work or circumstance
Syed · Rajput · Arain · Jatt · Pathan · Doctor · Engineer · Teacher · Businessman · Overseas · Divorced · Widow & widower · Second marriage · all 59 types
How this listing works
Every card above carries the same nine things: bride or groom, age, height, city and country, education, profession, sect, biradari, marital status and family type, plus a line in the member’s own words about what they are hoping for. It is enough for a family to decide whether a profile is worth pursuing, and it is deliberately not enough to identify anybody.
The order is shuffled on every load. There is no page two, no stable sequence and no export, so nobody can walk the database from start to finish and take a copy of it. A visitor is served twelve cards at a time; a signed-in member gets twenty-four. Both are capped per address per five minutes.
Nothing about a member is written into this page. Open the page source and you will find no names, no ages, no cities — the cards arrive after the page has loaded, from a feed that is marked noindex so no member is ever filed in a search engine under their own biodata. The pages you can find on Google are the city, country and biradari pages; the people on them stay ours to protect.
What is never shown, to anyone
Full name, email address, exact address and date of birth are not on a card, are not on the profile page, and do not unlock at any price. Photographs and the WhatsApp number are the only two things behind a request, and the only person who can open them is the member themselves.
Why the cards move around
A fixed order would mean the profiles at the top are seen a hundred times more often than the ones at the bottom. Shuffling spreads attention evenly, and it also means a scraper collecting page after page ends up with the same rows over and over.
Register free to see the rest
Income bracket, mother tongue, residency status, children, siblings, parents’ occupations, family class and the compatibility score against your own profile all open up once you have a profile of your own. Reading profiles costs nothing.
When a page shows nearby profiles
A search should hand you real people, not an empty page. So when a city has fewer members than the one next to it, the search reaches one ring further and tells you it has.
It starts exact
A city page asks for that city and nothing else. If there are enough members living there, that is all you will ever see.
Then the province
If the exact count is under three, the page quietly widens to the same province or region — Sindh, Punjab, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa — and then to the country, until it has something to show you.
And it tells you
Anything outside the city you asked for carries a Nearby tag, and a line above the grid says the search was widened. Exact matches are always listed first, above the nearby ones.
This is why a small city page is worth visiting rather than skipping. As members register, the widening stops on its own and the page narrows back to the city itself — no page has to be edited for that to happen.
From a card to a conversation
There is no chat on ByahMe. No inbox, no message thread, no way for a stranger to write to your daughter. The only thing you can send another member is a request, and the only thing they can do with it is accept it or leave it.
Shortlist — free
Save a profile to your own list and show it to your parents before you do anything else. The other member is not told, and nothing is sent.
Request photographs — free
A photo request never spends a connection. If they accept, their photographs open for you; yours open for them only if they ask you separately and you accept in turn. If a member has uploaded no photographs, or has chosen not to share them, the button says so rather than letting you wait for an answer that was never coming.
Request the WhatsApp number — one connection
This is the one that costs. A membership carries ten connections; a number request holds one of them while the request is pending, and you may add up to two hundred characters explaining who you are and who you are asking on behalf of. If they accept, both of you see each other’s number and the families take it from there. If they decline, or if the request lapses unanswered after seven days, the connection is returned in full — you only ever pay for connections that actually happened.
A decline is final for thirty days. No reason is given, and we ask that you respect that; it is the same courtesy you would want for your own family.
One membership, one price
Register, publish your profile and search the whole database without paying anything until 14 November 2026. After that — Rs 3,000 for 90 days and 10 connections, with no auto-renewal.
Create your profileBegin the search with your family beside you
Free to publish a profile during launch. Photographs and contact numbers stay yours until you decide otherwise.